Proposal Gift Ideas For Your Bridesmaids

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If you’re reading this right now, you probably have friends who always got your back. And who’s more worthy of an official proposal than them? But when’s the right time and what’s the right price to spend? Our team has listed up some original proposal ideas for your bridesmaids-to-be. We’ll also clear up a few common myths about the bridesmaids’ proposal subject.

But what even is a bridesmaid proposal?

Fortunately, it’s as simple as it sounds – it’s asking your girlfriends if they want to be your bridesmaids. You could ask them straight up, but what’s the fun in that? Don’t you want to see the look on their face when they open up their bridesmaid proposal gift? This way of asking is a lot more meaningful and shows that you really value them in your life. Some of the bridesmaids’ tasks include:

  • Buying a bridesmaid dress with accessories
  • Arranging a bridal shower for the bride-to-be
  • Set up a bachelorette party
  • Hold the bride-to-be’s hair when she drinks too much at her bachelorette party
  • Cheer up the bride-to-be whenever she’s stressed

And they all do this because you mean a lot to them and want you to have the time of your life at your wedding. Get them a lovely gift in return that they will absolutely love (bonus for personalized gifts).

Great bridesmaid proposal gift ideas

(1) Spa day

This is the ultimate bridesmaid gift. Take your friend(s) for some bonding while taking them out on a spa day. This is hands down one of the best ways to make memories with them.

(2) Personalized gift box

A fancy gift box filled with goodies is the perfect proposal gift for your bridesmaids-to-be. Get creative with what you put in it and make sure each of the bridesmaids will love theirs. We personally would be content with a box of chocolate, but accessories, nail polish, or other small goodies would be amazing too. You can personalize every box with a proposal phrase you choose. These come with adorable black tissue paper with polka dots.

(3) Bride socks

Whether you want to go on tight heels or barefoot, who wouldn’t need to keep their pedis pristine. These cute pairs of socks are a great proposal gift for you and your friends. Wear them on the day or night before the wedding and don’t forget to do a photoshoot with them! They are available in one size and handmade from 100% cotton.

(4) Personal bracelet

Bridesmaids’ gifts should be practical and considerate. These pretty bracelets tick all the boxes of the perfect bridesmaid’s gift. They come in gold, silver, and rose gold with four different cord colors. Carve your bridesmaids’ initials or names in it and they will definitely wear it long after the wedding.

(5) Bridesmaid puzzle

What is more fun and creative way to ask your bridesmaids to be by your side at the altar? These personalized puzzles have gained a lot of popularity lately, but this one is the nicest one so far in our opinion. You can pick an exact copy of the hair of your bridesmaids and the shop will make your puzzle with their names on it or a personalized proposal message.

(6) Personal necklace

This is another classic in the bridesmaid proposal gift categories. Pick a piece that your bridesmaids will want to wear long after the wedding by personalizing it for them. Initials can be carved in this solid heart pendant that comes in silver, gold, or rose gold. You can even extend the chain by 2” to layer it or wear it daily. You can order it with or without a gift box. Actually, this could be a good Hen Party Ideas for Your Bride.

(7) Personalized flask

This one’s because there need to be more feminine flasks out there! This engraved stainless steel rose gold flask can hold 6 fl. oz. of the drink of her choice. It’s a subtle way to drink your beverage that anyone will love. You can order it with or without the gift box, we recommend it because the box is just so pretty!

(8) Custom cookies

Who doesn’t love vanilla shortbread cookies? The creator of this personalized gift has really won the jackpot with this idea. They make perfect canvas cookies with engraved messages. Engrave the name of your bridesmaids on some cookies along with “do you want to be my bridesmaid?” and they’ll have no other choice than to say yes. Keep some extra cookies to use as bribery material later on. The cookies come in a box of 24.

(9) Tumbler gift set

We strongly believe every woman should be fully prepared for life. And what’s a better way to be prepared than drinking a travel pack? All her favorite refreshments will be kept cold from pour to sip, regardless of where she ends up! The package includes two customized insulated tumblers holding 12 fl. oz. and a bottle holding 17 fl. oz. in a large assortment of colors. Pair this gift with your bridesmaid proposition card, and your bridesmaid is set!

(10) Bridesmaid chocolates

Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate! Along with diamonds, a girl’s best friend. Each box comes with 15 chocolates with multicolored letters that are flavored according to color. Personalize them with a cute message or simply just write “be my bridesmaid?” on them, and your girl will not be able to say no. Warning: the shop recommends taking your area’s climate into consideration as the chocolate melts easily in warm temperatures. A link to check that is provided on their website! Shipping is USPS 2 – 3 day priority or express mail and each shipment comes with ice packs in insulated mailers. Measurements of the chocolate: 1 1/8” x 1 1/18” x 5/8”.

(11) Personalized makeup bag

This gift is perfect to hold her wedding makeup! When you’re all getting ready, your bridesmaids will have a chic makeup bag with their own names on them. You could even put your wedding date on it so it’s a great memory. They come in natural or cream with your metallic zipper of choice. Your bridesmaids will be using these gifts long after the wedding!

(12) Jewelry box

This is an amazing idea to present your bridesmaids with their wedding accessories! It’s a very sweet way to propose to them and would especially be a good idea if your friends are traveling to your wedding. Who doesn’t need a cute travel jewelry case? The measurements of the leatherette box: 4” x 4” x 2.2”, comes in white or blush with black letters.

(13) Sleeping mask

This luxury silk eye mask is a great gift for your bridesmaids’ beauty sleep. They can include their names imprinted on the front and movable lashes for extra uniqueness. There are five possible colors worthy of any Hollywood bedroom.

(14) Bridesmaid magnets

Surprise your girls with this original and cute proposal gift. Start by selecting how many magnets you need and consider a “you” magnet to keep her company. Then, text Etsy shop owner Brittney an attached photo of each of your friends. She’ll make a beautiful sketch of your bridesmaids and attach the magnet to a card asking for her to be your bridesmaid.

(15) Silky robe

A cute silk robe paired with some cocktails is the best way to relax the days before your wedding. The robes come in nine different colors and in any size. There are five design options to choose from, but they’re just as beautiful as plain. Made out of satin and lace.

(16) Clothing hanger

Yes, you read that right, a fancy personalized clothing hanger is the best multitasking gift for your bridesmaids that also keeps her dress neat! You can pick between five font options to engrave a personalized message on the hanger. They come in walnut, light wood, and white finishes. Also available in children’s sizes.

(17) Retro bridesmaid t-shirt

We love the graphic retro vibes of these shirts! They are perfect for a bachelorette party in town and come in S, M, L, XL, or 2XL and are made from 100% cotton jersey. If you think it will be a bit in your tees, you might as well buy matching sweatshirts by Xpression Tees that are available in ten colors and many sizes.

(18) Tote bag

Since your girls will need a weekend bag for the bachelorette party trip, buy them a chic tote bag monogrammed with their initials. They come in 100% natural cotton with a leather monogram label in six colors – we recommend Tiffany blue. Consider having their initials carved into the label with gold or silver foil or without foil. Dimensions: 20” x 12.6” (LxH) and handle height: 9.8”.

(19) Customized candle

A cute candle is especially thoughtful when it comes with a sweet name tag asking her to be your bridesmaid. These candles smell amazing and are gorgeous in all ten possible tag colors. Each candle contains four ounces of hand-poured soy wax.

(20) Bottle of champagne or wine

When you give your girls a bottle of champagne or wine, it’s a party. But when you give them a bottle with a personalized proposal card, it’s a celebration! Not that into wine? These labels come in four different sizes and can be put onto any kind of drink. If you want to skip the alcohol, the labels are also available in candle size. This shop sends you specific instructions on taking off the tags perfectly, so your bridesmaid bottle looks splendid.

(21) Photo frame

We suggest presenting your bridesmaids a before-wedding pic of all the girls. After the wedding, she can put a shot of the bridal party in it. The frame comes in three sizes and an optional gift box.

(22) Laser-engraved glasses

Planning a DIY bachelorette party? These laser-engraved glasses are perfect to prepare your soon-bridesmaids for the party!

(23) Custom can coolers

A skinny can cooler with a beautiful monogram is without a doubt the perfect gift to keep your bridesmaids’ water cold. It’s a thoughtful way to propose to your girls! The coolers come in five colors.

(24) Custom wine glasses

Of course, we had to put this one in here. There’s a reason why wine glasses are a classic gift: everyone is in love with those cuties. They feature the bridesmaids’ names in 18 possible colors and come in a gift set along with your proposal.

FAQs about bridesmaid proposals

Last but not least, some frequently asked questions about the bridesmaid proposal subject!

How much should I spend on the gifts?

Your only goal is to get your girls to be your bridesmaids, so it really isn’t all about the gift. Here comes the cliché sentence “speak from the heart” and they’ll love anything you buy them, no matter how expensive it is. Helen from Bridesmaids does have one tip for you: avoid too expensive gifts if you think they will make anyone uncomfortable. Also, no one needs puppies.

How long after your engagement do you ask your bridesmaids?

Ask them as soon as you’ve set a date for your wedding. Your super-rich sister-in-law needs a lot of time to plan your bachelorette party in Vegas. Also, arrange a private designer boutique for those four-digit bridesmaid dresses. Oh never mind, that was a movie. You don’t have a sister-in-law like Helen? Then you’ll still need enough time to plan and shop dresses, so 12 months before the wedding would be our recommended minimum. Just make sure to stay away from the Brazilian barbeque joint.

What should include in my bridesmaid proposal?

You can get as creative as you want with this one. Tip: you can never go wrong with a cute handwritten proposal letter with your wedding date on it. Check our post on will-you-be-my bridesmaid cards, there are some pearls in there for your girls.

What’s a bridesmaid box?

It’s a decorative gift box (something like our favorite) filled with goodies for your girls. It can include favors, accessories, snacks, or anything else you think they might like. Try to align the theme of the box to your wedding for an extra special effect. What a bridesmaid box is really all about is showing your appreciation for the girls that are always there for you.

Go ask your girls

Before you say “I do” in front of the whole world, you really should ask your bridesmaids first. A bridesmaid proposal gift is a beautiful and unique way to do that, and will definitely be remembered long after. Now go on and party with your future bridesmaids!