Whilst it is not often talked about, premature ejaculation is a very common problem for a lot of men. It is so unfortunate that many of those men who are suffering feel too embarrassed to seek help and just accept that they will have this problem for life. If we are truly to address this issue then we need a societal shift in the way that we view premature ejaculation and those who experience it.
One of the biggest reasons that many men don’t want to speak up about their sexual problems is because they are worried about what women will think. This will often cause men to avoid relationships or can cause enormous strain in their current relationship.
To help the many men out there who are worried, this article will explain how women really feel when their partner has a problem with premature ejaculation.
Women are Understanding
Women are a lot more understanding about premature ejaculation than many men think but only if you communicate. Communication is absolutely key whenever there is an issue in a relationship because it is far easier to find a solution if you work at the problem together.
There are many solutions these days such as special pills and sprays which can help with premature ejaculation and as this article explains, it is far easier to try out these solutions if you are open and honest with your wife or girlfriend. At the end of the day, it is in your partner’s best interests for you to overcome the problem so that your sex life will improve. Make sure that you address the situation as a couple.
They are Insecure
The biggest problem that occurs if you do not communicate with your partner is that they may start to feel insecure about the problem themselves. Your wife or girlfriend might start to think it is a problem with them rather than you or that you are climaxing as quickly as possible to get it over and done with.
Sexual relationships are so important for maintaining and strengthening the bond with your partner but if there are problems it can have the opposite effect. To make sure that your partner is blaming themselves for your problem and feeling insecure, reassure them that they are beautiful and that you really want to resolve this issue so that it is not a problem anymore.
Are They Frustrated?
This is how many men assume women will feel about premature ejaculation but in most cases they are actually frustrated with their partner’s response to the problem. If your wife or girlfriend perceives that you are just feeling sorry for yourself or that you don’t seem to think it is even a problem.
Frustration can be an enormous problem in a relationship, especially if you don’t communicate with your partner or take the steps to relieve her frustration by addressing your premature ejaculation problems.
Having an issue like premature ejaculation can really hurt a man’s self-esteem and make him feel inadequate but what many men don’t realize is that it can do exactly the same for their partner. It is so important to talk to your partner so that you both understand each other’s feelings and can help each other. Without good communication, resentment and insecurities can easily grow which could seriously damage your relationship.